Unfortunate Encounter

It was just after Christmas we were called again to Michigan, and we went as always. It seemed to go well as we went through Canada this time, which takes a few hours off the journey. Before we know it, we are in Ohio and turn northward to get to Michigan. 

The interstates and turnpikes in this area are 70mph. We don't like it at all, and I have commented on this subject of higher speeds on major roads before. We drive 65 on these higher speed roads, and it seems each time we are in Ohio or Michigan, we see even more off-road signs marking yet another accident scene investigation site. I am always commenting that when the top speed permitted is 70, nobody goes 70 but at a higher speed. There are always those news reports of a massive accident scene with many cars involved.

Of course!! Who can stop quickly and safely when you are speeding down the road at such a high speed? When you are trying to keep up with everyone else, and they are all going 80mph or even higher, YOU tell me who will stop in time to avoid an accident if the car ahead of them stops suddenly?

Well, on the day after Christmas 2019 somewhere on the Ohio turnpike, we were rear-ended by a huge GMC pickup hauling two propellers in the cargo bed. It was a heavy-duty pickup traveling at a higher speed than posted. Fortunately we nor the other driver were not injured, but it could have been worse. Luckily Sheila was driving, and after the initial shock of the noise and the minivan being struck from behind, she had and maintained good control of the van and got us safely to the side of the road. Except for the pickup that struck us, not one vehicle when we were rear-ended, stopped to see if there were any injured or if anyone needed assistance.

It took over four hours for the state trooper to arrive to take all the personal and vehicle information from us. All that time we were on the side of the road, trucks, rigs, RVs of every size, and cars zipped by us at the speed of hurry-up. 

Our broken Mazda5 minivan somewhere on the Ohio turnpike!

Initially the other driver stated he didn't see us. I had already snapped pixs of the damage to our car, which was substantial. The whole back window of our beloved Mazda5 was shattered with glass fragments all over the interior of the minivan, all the way up to the front seats! Where his pickup front bumper had impacted on the driver's side of our van rear showed he had hit us while in a turn. Hours later I asked if he was turning when he hit us. He simply replied YES, and explained as he started to pass us, he said he looked in his side mirrors to check for oncoming traffic, and in that second of looking away from the front view, his pickup had impacted with our minivan. I maintain throughout that time and still do, that he was going faster than 80mph, though the state trooper wrote in the crash report that the pickup driver was driving only at an estimated speed of 71mph!

His front bumper wasn't even dented much by the impact

We were okayed by the trooper for our continuing on our way since the car looked to be without any serious structural damage, and the rear brake and backup lights still functioned. During the first hour driving, it seemed the front alignment had been affected as the steering wheel was vibrating heavily, but the further we drove, the vibration seemed to fade slowly, until finally it disappeared completely. 

This dented impact point hides even more damage!

We stayed three days in Michigan, and during that time, our hosts were kind and lucky enough to find some frosted plastic wide enough to cover the hole left by the shattered back window, and I spent an hour or so cleaning the back of the minivan, then taping the plastic to the back of the van. The only difference while driving was the perception of a window - many windows - being wide open with all the noises we were hearing! Other than that and being a bit colder, it was okay. The plastic was pulled tight so it didn't vibrate while on the road, and the ride home was quick returning through Canada again, and uneventful. Even when stopped for the border crossing, nobody at the borders even noticed nor commented on our missing back window!

Back in WNY our minivan waits for a doctor and estimate

I had wanted to write this earlier but never was in the mood, or had the time since Sheila thought the insurance company would total the minivan, and indeed as we discovered later, they did deem the van as not worthy of being repaired. We weren't happy of course, with their decision since we have gone a lot of places in our Mazda5 minivan, enjoying the smooth ride and creature comforts very much! That was only later after Michigan Frankenmuth insurance company wanted to see if the chassis of the minivan was further damaged by the driver's side rear impact, and indeed it was, boosting the repair costs over initial estimates to over a thousand dollars more!

Just sitting on the Ohio turnpike. What if there were injuries?

We sadly began our search for a new vehicle. A week later, we found ourselves a very nice looking 2011 (one year younger than our beloved 2010 minivan) Ford Escape XLT.

Looking back, I wonder...  WE wonder, if that guy who rear-ended us that day, knows how much he ruined our lives by going too fast and hitting us. Granted, none of us were injured, but it could've ended much worst than it actually did. For over two weeks, we had to drop everything so that we could figure out what our actions would take us once we heard from his insurance company. Once we were given the ultimatum by Frankenmuth, we went into serious search mode and quickly decided on a vehicle that would meet our needs into the future. 

This is what happens when you drive fast and hit a deer!

This all goes in hand with what I have been discussing for many years online before I quit social media in mid-2015: in general, people drive too fast, and having a speed limit on highways and interstates of 70mph or faster, encourages yet higher speeds than the posted speed limits. If you are an experienced racetrack driver, perhaps then you might be able to drive safely, but when you see on national and international news of how people are involved in multi-vehicle crashes, I'll bet you someone was driving too fast, and was unable to stop in time to avoid the crash scene. 

If you value your life, the life of your children and friends, you will write or call your states' highway division and senator/congressman and TELL them to fight for LOWER and not for a faster speed limit, so people will quit dying on the roads, and slow the rate in which people's lives will be changed forever by being hit but not killed. Can you or anyone else on your block or in your neighborhood, afford to go out to buy a new car? Not only does that take time and money, but if you are still working, who is going to get off enough time necessary to look for a new vehicle? Imagine the time you will require if you were injured in a car accident and need time to recuperate?

Please SLOW down. Look around and be aware of your surroundings. Drive slower on city streets and watch out for other people and vehicles. If you feel sleepy or tired while driving, pull over, take a walk, get something to eat, and drink some water. Splash some water on your face, just do something so you will not drive feeling LESS than your normal 100%! 

What should be in your mind is looking down at your speedometer when necessary, being aware of your present speed, and thinking: if a kid, a car, or a dog suddenly appeared out of nowhere in front of me and my car, will my speed and road conditions permit me to stop in time?

Please stay safe and stay alive out there!!

It's Snowing Again

We knew the snow was coming for days. It's been quite the Winter in less snow, but the intense chill was not absent at all! We have been out into the snow and/or cold, and it felt like Winter but sure as heck did not look like a normal western New York winter at all!

After an absence of about a week the snow has returned. Sheila has just cooked a fabulous breakfast of broccoli, fried potatoes and sloppy eggs. After eating, I give her a break from the washing and she sits at the piano and starts playing. 

The moment is priceless! Seeing the heavy snowfall outside the windows, hearing her fingers dance over the piano keys, and the sound of the piano is sooooo calming.....

There is ni visual illustration to this scene I paint, but am hoping you can see it in your mind!

A dear longtime friend has lost her husband and friend of over forty years, and I hope these few words will comfort her.

I wish everyone in the world could hear this, and be here for this small treasured moment. It is indeed a moment I will remember for the rest of my life!